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	<description>and other bigotry</description>
	<pubDate>Sat, 19 Jul 2008 00:42:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Schala</title>
		<link>http://questioningtransphobia.wordpress.com/2008/03/21/money-mouth-etc/#comment-1505</link>
		<dc:creator>Schala</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 28 Mar 2008 17:36:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>About male-assigned AIS, the only information I got was how a few trans women later discovered they had mild AIS (actually two testimonies), and suggestions of masculinizing treatments (mastectomy, testosterone). No mention of a possible female identity was breached in any of those except the testimonies, which were personal. The ratio of 5-10% female-identified who transition to female (who have AIS) seems to suggest it's not the majority, but not something to ignore totally either. If I had been diagnosed and the treatment options were 1) doing nothing 2) testosterone, I probably wouldn't have known about option #3) estrogen and might have fucked my body up, along with my mind, just to go along their theories.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>About male-assigned AIS, the only information I got was how a few trans women later discovered they had mild AIS (actually two testimonies), and suggestions of masculinizing treatments (mastectomy, testosterone). No mention of a possible female identity was breached in any of those except the testimonies, which were personal. The ratio of 5-10% female-identified who transition to female (who have AIS) seems to suggest it&#8217;s not the majority, but not something to ignore totally either. If I had been diagnosed and the treatment options were 1) doing nothing 2) testosterone, I probably wouldn&#8217;t have known about option #3) estrogen and might have fucked my body up, along with my mind, just to go along their theories.</p>
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		<title>By: Schala</title>
		<link>http://questioningtransphobia.wordpress.com/2008/03/21/money-mouth-etc/#comment-1504</link>
		<dc:creator>Schala</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 28 Mar 2008 17:32:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>"I’ve known a handful of intersex people who were assigned at birth or early life who transitioned later on, and they certainly didn’t seem happy with having that decision made for them. Is he just ignoring ISNA on this particular point?"

The ISNA is generally not approving of those with intersex conditions who were assigned or reassigned as male at birth. This is also reflected in other intersex support groups, like AISSG which focuses almost solely on those declared legally female at birth. This is what their mission statement says, and what I heard them doing. Their information on male-assigned is sorely lacking and I've only found very few bits of information about it elsewhere, for AIS.

"So he’s just a complete idiot? I mean, it sounds like everything he knows about trans people he made up himself, inspired by bits and pieces picked up from the media."

Well yeah, more or less. He made a lot of it up by regarding ISNA's policy, and ENDA. He joined in the HBS debate a couple months back with absolutely no knowledge what HBS was. I bet he thought it was an intersex condition that teh evil tranz were appropriating, and he defended the HBS folks...go figure.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;I’ve known a handful of intersex people who were assigned at birth or early life who transitioned later on, and they certainly didn’t seem happy with having that decision made for them. Is he just ignoring ISNA on this particular point?&#8221;</p>
<p>The ISNA is generally not approving of those with intersex conditions who were assigned or reassigned as male at birth. This is also reflected in other intersex support groups, like AISSG which focuses almost solely on those declared legally female at birth. This is what their mission statement says, and what I heard them doing. Their information on male-assigned is sorely lacking and I&#8217;ve only found very few bits of information about it elsewhere, for AIS.</p>
<p>&#8220;So he’s just a complete idiot? I mean, it sounds like everything he knows about trans people he made up himself, inspired by bits and pieces picked up from the media.&#8221;</p>
<p>Well yeah, more or less. He made a lot of it up by regarding ISNA&#8217;s policy, and ENDA. He joined in the HBS debate a couple months back with absolutely no knowledge what HBS was. I bet he thought it was an intersex condition that teh evil tranz were appropriating, and he defended the HBS folks&#8230;go figure.</p>
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		<title>By: Lisa Harney</title>
		<link>http://questioningtransphobia.wordpress.com/2008/03/21/money-mouth-etc/#comment-1502</link>
		<dc:creator>Lisa Harney</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 28 Mar 2008 15:49:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;blockquote&gt;He doesn’t claim to have been hurt about being intersex. He claims to be privileged since he has a team of doctors with him who make decisions for him. I’m not sure if having people decide for you is a privilege, but he seems fine with the results.&lt;/blockquote&gt;

A lot of intersex people &lt;em&gt;are&lt;/em&gt; hurt by the medical establishment. Is he really so self-absorbed as to think that just because he's happy, then everything's fine with the world? I've known a handful of intersex people who were assigned at birth or early life who transitioned later on, and they certainly didn't seem happy with having that decision made for them. Is he just ignoring ISNA on this particular point?

&lt;blockquote&gt;Well he has no intention to transition and is more about calling those who do as fakes. He agrees with Barney Frank with ENDA because “transsexuals are sometimes bad in the media and pride parades and prostitution”. In short he’s saying it’s all our fault and that this perverted mediatic image is of our own doing, that we should blame ourselves for not speaking against prostitution and such. Explaining to him that some people have no choice in the matter didn’t make him concede anything.&lt;/blockquote&gt;

So he's just a complete idiot? I mean, it sounds like everything he knows about trans people he made up himself, inspired by bits and pieces picked up from the media.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p>He doesn’t claim to have been hurt about being intersex. He claims to be privileged since he has a team of doctors with him who make decisions for him. I’m not sure if having people decide for you is a privilege, but he seems fine with the results.</p></blockquote>
<p>A lot of intersex people <em>are</em> hurt by the medical establishment. Is he really so self-absorbed as to think that just because he&#8217;s happy, then everything&#8217;s fine with the world? I&#8217;ve known a handful of intersex people who were assigned at birth or early life who transitioned later on, and they certainly didn&#8217;t seem happy with having that decision made for them. Is he just ignoring ISNA on this particular point?</p>
<blockquote><p>Well he has no intention to transition and is more about calling those who do as fakes. He agrees with Barney Frank with ENDA because “transsexuals are sometimes bad in the media and pride parades and prostitution”. In short he’s saying it’s all our fault and that this perverted mediatic image is of our own doing, that we should blame ourselves for not speaking against prostitution and such. Explaining to him that some people have no choice in the matter didn’t make him concede anything.</p></blockquote>
<p>So he&#8217;s just a complete idiot? I mean, it sounds like everything he knows about trans people he made up himself, inspired by bits and pieces picked up from the media.</p>
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		<title>By: belledame222</title>
		<link>http://questioningtransphobia.wordpress.com/2008/03/21/money-mouth-etc/#comment-1501</link>
		<dc:creator>belledame222</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 28 Mar 2008 14:01:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oy, that guy should hook up with Renee, and maybe an ex-gay or so.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oy, that guy should hook up with Renee, and maybe an ex-gay or so.</p>
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		<title>By: Schala</title>
		<link>http://questioningtransphobia.wordpress.com/2008/03/21/money-mouth-etc/#comment-1500</link>
		<dc:creator>Schala</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 28 Mar 2008 13:11:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>"even her idea of sanctified, sexless lesbianism is straight out of the Book"

Yeah, it made me laugh a little when I learned she married 3 times and had 11 children. Then she has the guts to claim she's more lesbian or knows more about it - even still being married.

I at best claimed to be bi-curious, and I don't pretend to know more than I do about relationships, or to be more important or better because of my relationships or lack thereof.

"Honestly, has that woman ever been happy in her entire life? Have any of them?"

I don't consider myself to have been happy, yet I don't hold such a negative view towards being a woman, towards life. I did keep my close family through transition, so I'm lucky.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;even her idea of sanctified, sexless lesbianism is straight out of the Book&#8221;</p>
<p>Yeah, it made me laugh a little when I learned she married 3 times and had 11 children. Then she has the guts to claim she&#8217;s more lesbian or knows more about it - even still being married.</p>
<p>I at best claimed to be bi-curious, and I don&#8217;t pretend to know more than I do about relationships, or to be more important or better because of my relationships or lack thereof.</p>
<p>&#8220;Honestly, has that woman ever been happy in her entire life? Have any of them?&#8221;</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t consider myself to have been happy, yet I don&#8217;t hold such a negative view towards being a woman, towards life. I did keep my close family through transition, so I&#8217;m lucky.</p>
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		<title>By: Schala</title>
		<link>http://questioningtransphobia.wordpress.com/2008/03/21/money-mouth-etc/#comment-1499</link>
		<dc:creator>Schala</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 28 Mar 2008 13:03:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>"I do understand the differences and divisions - as well as intersections - of trans and intersex, although it does make me sad to see people who are marginalized and abused by society and the medical profession to turn around and claim that trans people are less worthy of anything than they are. That seems pretty self-serving."

He doesn't claim to have been hurt about being intersex. He claims to be privileged since he has a team of doctors with him who make decisions for him. I'm not sure if having people decide for you is a privilege, but he seems fine with the results.

"Anyway, it seems clear that he’s trying to assert some kind of privilege of intersex over trans, something I’ve seen several intersex people do - like the author of the trans privilege checklist. I like that what he says really comes out as “I really respect trans people who know their place.”"

Well he has no intention to transition and is more about calling those who do as fakes. He agrees with Barney Frank with ENDA because "transsexuals are sometimes bad in the media and pride parades and prostitution". In short he's saying it's all our fault and that this perverted mediatic image is of our own doing, that we should blame ourselves for not speaking against prostitution and such. Explaining to him that some people have no choice in the matter didn't make him concede anything.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;I do understand the differences and divisions - as well as intersections - of trans and intersex, although it does make me sad to see people who are marginalized and abused by society and the medical profession to turn around and claim that trans people are less worthy of anything than they are. That seems pretty self-serving.&#8221;</p>
<p>He doesn&#8217;t claim to have been hurt about being intersex. He claims to be privileged since he has a team of doctors with him who make decisions for him. I&#8217;m not sure if having people decide for you is a privilege, but he seems fine with the results.</p>
<p>&#8220;Anyway, it seems clear that he’s trying to assert some kind of privilege of intersex over trans, something I’ve seen several intersex people do - like the author of the trans privilege checklist. I like that what he says really comes out as “I really respect trans people who know their place.”&#8221;</p>
<p>Well he has no intention to transition and is more about calling those who do as fakes. He agrees with Barney Frank with ENDA because &#8220;transsexuals are sometimes bad in the media and pride parades and prostitution&#8221;. In short he&#8217;s saying it&#8217;s all our fault and that this perverted mediatic image is of our own doing, that we should blame ourselves for not speaking against prostitution and such. Explaining to him that some people have no choice in the matter didn&#8217;t make him concede anything.</p>
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		<title>By: Lisa Harney</title>
		<link>http://questioningtransphobia.wordpress.com/2008/03/21/money-mouth-etc/#comment-1498</link>
		<dc:creator>Lisa Harney</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 28 Mar 2008 12:36:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think you're right.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think you&#8217;re right.</p>
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		<title>By: belledame222</title>
		<link>http://questioningtransphobia.wordpress.com/2008/03/21/money-mouth-etc/#comment-1497</link>
		<dc:creator>belledame222</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 28 Mar 2008 09:36:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I still think Carol was Heart.  notice she didn't come back after I suggested she was?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I still think Carol was Heart.  notice she didn&#8217;t come back after I suggested she was?</p>
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		<title>By: belledame222</title>
		<link>http://questioningtransphobia.wordpress.com/2008/03/21/money-mouth-etc/#comment-1496</link>
		<dc:creator>belledame222</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 28 Mar 2008 09:33:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>..and of course, it's not as though years and years and years worth of being steeped in a religion that basically says that women are inferior and dirty and so on, it's not like she's still got that internalized or nothin'.  and i am sure they were just grreeeat about y'know, queer anything.

even her idea of sanctified, sexless lesbianism is straight out of the Book; "whither thou goest I will go."  just leave the malefolk out of it and apparently that's "radical."</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>..and of course, it&#8217;s not as though years and years and years worth of being steeped in a religion that basically says that women are inferior and dirty and so on, it&#8217;s not like she&#8217;s still got that internalized or nothin&#8217;.  and i am sure they were just grreeeat about y&#8217;know, queer anything.</p>
<p>even her idea of sanctified, sexless lesbianism is straight out of the Book; &#8220;whither thou goest I will go.&#8221;  just leave the malefolk out of it and apparently that&#8217;s &#8220;radical.&#8221;</p>
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		<title>By: belledame222</title>
		<link>http://questioningtransphobia.wordpress.com/2008/03/21/money-mouth-etc/#comment-1495</link>
		<dc:creator>belledame222</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 28 Mar 2008 09:29:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>"Heart is still there though, telling me that liking my female body is because of ignorance and being duped and that no WBW in her right mind would ever like her body or her femaleness."

Oh well then there you go.

Honestly, you know, I think that's a big chunk of why the peculiar animosity here: part of their whole schtick is based on the notion that there is no repeat NO reason why anyone would -want- to be a woman in this our patriarchal world.  The fact that some people born with male privilege (according to them) WANT to switch over to the Oppressed Class kind of gives the lie to that; better classify them as slumming or insane or something.

it's so, so fucked up.  "We're the most miserable people that ever miseried, and if you boyos [tm lucky] think you're going to take that away from us, -you're crazy!-"

Honestly, has that woman ever been happy in her entire life?  Have any of them?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;Heart is still there though, telling me that liking my female body is because of ignorance and being duped and that no WBW in her right mind would ever like her body or her femaleness.&#8221;</p>
<p>Oh well then there you go.</p>
<p>Honestly, you know, I think that&#8217;s a big chunk of why the peculiar animosity here: part of their whole schtick is based on the notion that there is no repeat NO reason why anyone would -want- to be a woman in this our patriarchal world.  The fact that some people born with male privilege (according to them) WANT to switch over to the Oppressed Class kind of gives the lie to that; better classify them as slumming or insane or something.</p>
<p>it&#8217;s so, so fucked up.  &#8220;We&#8217;re the most miserable people that ever miseried, and if you boyos [tm lucky] think you&#8217;re going to take that away from us, -you&#8217;re crazy!-&#8221;</p>
<p>Honestly, has that woman ever been happy in her entire life?  Have any of them?</p>
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